How It Works
At a SpeedBack event, you will go on a maximum of 8 dates resulting in feedbacks from other professional singles. You will have 8 minutes to meet and greet your date and then you will fill our SpeedBack™ form before moving on to your next date. All feedbacks will be ANONYMOUS.
The sample below is a glimpse of the SpeedBack report. You will receive this report 3-5 business days after the event.
Note: Below is a truncated report a lady may receive from a man.
- 8 Men said they had positive first impressions of you
- 6 Men said their impression of you changed for better after speaking with you
- 2 Men said their impressions of you changed for worse after speaking with you
- 6 Men asked you out
- 3 Men you matched with
What your dates thought of how you greeted them:
6 men thought you smelled nice
5 men thought you were warm and friendly
1 man felt you they were in the friend zone – [You patted me on the back instead of giving me a hug]
This is what your dates had to say about your body language:
6 men thought you were self-assured and poised
7 men felt you were warm, fun and playful
5 men said you gave them great eye contact
1 man did not think you had good eye contact
1 man sensed you were bored
We have worked very hard to create our SpeedBack form. Below are the instructions followed by couple of samples of the questions and responses you may receive.
INSTRUCTIONS: Please check ALL that apply. Use the specifics sections to write specific things the person said or did that informed your feedback.
You can also use the specifics section to write in your own personalized feedback. Just remember RESPECT & TACT.
One more important thing, . . . If you select a check box with an (*) next to it, you MUST provide specifics otherwise it is NOT HELPFUL to the person receiving that feedback.
What vibe did my body language give you?
- □ Your confidence adds to your appeal
- □ Slouching makes you small
- □ All eyes everywhere but on me
- □ You seem stiff, relax
- □ Warm, fun, and playful!
- □ Wonderful eye contact
- □ *You looked bored to death*
- □ * You made me feel uncomfortable*
What stood out about how I approached you?
- □ You smell intoxicating
- □ So warm and friendly, gave me the fuzzies
- □ Relax, let your guard down
- □ Hug me, don’t squeeze me
- □ *Am I already in the friend zone?*
- □ Did you forget the deodorant?